I am truly sorry to hear that Janders. My wife and I know too well the pain of the negative test, especially when you really, really think it is the right time. I certainly hope you get a positive one soon. Best wishes.

Ditto to what BlueDev said.  I had our little guy in July (had two miscarriages before him) and it ended up a great time to have a baby.  Summer babies are fun because you can take them outside and have them in just a diaper...gotta love naked babies!

I am sure a perfectly healthy bundle of joy will be in your future.

 

Our time will come. I bought some scrapbook stuff about grandma's yesterday. I know it is hard to wait but when you finally have your children you will just know that the timing was right and all the other times just were not. Lost # 2 and I can't imagine not having Monica. Lost #5 and 13 years later I am glad I don't have one more. God knew what I could handle and when I could handle it. Just keep believing.

Blue Dev and Jill- Thanks a lot.


Mom~ I know it will come one day, sometimes it is so hard to be patient when it involves things beyond our control....

Oh sweetie....I'm sorry, number one, and number two...it will happen.  One day when you have a house full of little Anderson's running around you look back on this and wonder why you were so worried.

Did you take a urine test or a blood one?  How later are you?  I had 2 negative urines and was 2 weeks late before I got a positive test with Shea.

I did two negative urines and I am 3 days late. If I dont get it in 4 days I will take one again. With Jayden I was a week late and got a positive test.


I cant wait for the day with a bunch of little Jaysen's and Joey's running around!

good luck, I hope they won't stay negative forever!

I read this last night and when I saw the title in the forums - I knew what you were talking about and I cried, then I read it and the comments and cried some more. - But I didn't know what to say

I still don't

I'm really sorry Joey - I really thought your flue last week might have been masking something else.

We love you Jolynda - You're an amazing woman - and we'll all be here to cry with you tears of saddness and Joy - there will be Joy - I know it

Have a great weekend away sweets

(as an aside - doesn't it feel strange to know that people on the other side of the country/WORLD really do genuinely care about you?)

I did two negative urines and I am 3 days late. If I dont get it in 4 days I will take one again

Ok..urines don't always show positive the first try.  They're more sensitive than they used to be, but they're not infallible, especially not this early.

Don't give up, it will happen.  Pretty soon I'll be knitting for you and your Bambino......

Hey Janders...

Just think the special little soul thats going to come down is just waiting for the right moment. They are getting ready to come. Best wishes and hang in there!

It's a for sure negative....... Aunt flo knows all

Maybe next month....................

Oh Joey - for some of us she's welcome (as oposed to the alternative - I don't think anyone likes her and if they do I don't want to know cause its..- I'm waffling) and for some she's not and for others she never comes at all anymore

Sorry Jo - I got..nervous and waffled

Are you okay?

Yes I'm alright, I know that God knows when the right time is and he will bless us with a baby when it is right.

I cant wait for the day with a bunch of little Jaysen's and Joey's running around!

sounds lovely !. your time will come, joey

mig XXX